E78: Why Money Is the Byproduct, Not the Goal of True Success

In this episode of Dream Business Dream Life, I share a deeply personal lesson I learned the hard way...money alone does not equal success. After scaling my eCommerce business to seven figures, I realised that the freedom I craved (the reason I started my business) had slipped away. I was exhausted, overcommitted, and out of alignment with the life I actually wanted.

If you’ve ever found yourself chasing bigger revenue goals only to feel further from freedom, this episode is for you. I’ll walk you through the three pillars that shift everything in business: Clarity, Consistency, and Alignment. When you have these foundations in place, money becomes a natural byproduct not the endless goalpost you’re always chasing.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode

• Why money alone won’t create the freedom you’re seeking
• How clarity helps you simplify your offers, attract the right clients, and stop wasting energy
• Why consistency builds trust, stability, and freedom in your business
• How alignment ensures your business supports your life not the other way around
• Practical examples from my clients (and my own journey) of what changes when you prioritise clarity, consistency, and alignment

Reflection Questions

Take some time to journal or reflect on these prompts to bring today’s lesson into your own business:

Clarity

• Do I know exactly who I serve and what I offer them?
• Can I explain my business in one confident sentence?
• Is my messaging focused or scattered?

Consistency

• Where am I reinventing the wheel in my business?
• What systems or processes could save me time and energy?
• Am I showing up consistently for my audience and clients?

Alignment

• Does my business model support the lifestyle I want?
• Which offers light me up and which drain me?
• Where do I need better boundaries to protect my time and energy?

This episode will inspire you to stop chasing revenue for its own sake and start building a business that feels good to run. When you focus on clarity, consistency, and alignment, you create the space for freedom, fulfilment, and yes...financial success that flows with ease.

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Transcript

Hello & Welcome to today’s episode of Dream Business Dream Life.

Today’s episode is one that’s really close to my heart because it’s a lesson I had to learn the hard way…money is not the goal…it’s the byproduct of true success.

So if you’ve ever felt like you’re working harder and harder, chasing bigger numbers, but somehow you’re moving further away from the freedom you actually wanted when you started… this episode is for you.

When I first started my ecommerce business, I had one vision: I wanted freedom. Freedom to choose my hours, freedom to travel, freedom to spend time with friends and family and freedom to live life on my own terms. 

And I did build what most people would call a successful business. I hit seven figures. I had all the external signs that said, ‘This is success.’

But that business completely took over my life. I was working in the business constantly. I was chasing every opportunity, and focusing only on revenue goals.

And do you know what happened? I ended up exhausted and if you have heard my story you’ll know the impact that exhaustion had on my life…if you don’t know my story then go and listen to episode two of this podcast.

I had the money, but I didn’t have the freedom. I was further away from the dream I set out to create in the first place.

That was the wake-up call for me: money alone is not success. Money is only meaningful when it’s the byproduct of a business and a life that feels aligned.

When we focus only on the money, we end up in constant hustle mode. We take on clients who aren’t a great fit, we overdeliver, we undercharge, we say yes when we should say no.

It’s like chasing a moving target because no matter how much money you make, it’s never enough. There’s always another milestone, another goalpost.

But when you shift your focus to building a business that’s aligned, clear, and consistent, something magical happens…the money comes. And it comes with less force, less burnout, and less chaos.

Because money is just energy. It flows toward clarity. It flows toward value. It flows toward businesses that are consistent and reliable.

So the question isn’t, ‘How can I make more money?’ The real question is: ‘How can I build a business that supports the life I want?’”

For me and for my clients success comes down to three key things: Clarity, Consistency, and Alignment.

And I want to go a little deeper into each one, because these aren’t just nice words. These are the foundations that actually change how your business feels day-to-day.

Clarity is knowing exactly what you do, who you do it for, and how you do it.

When you don’t have clarity, you wake up each day reacting instead of leading. You second-guess your offers, you say yes to clients who aren’t a great fit, and your marketing feels scattered.

But when you do have clarity, you save yourself so much wasted energy.

I had a client who came to me with five different offers. She was trying to market all of them at once, and she was absolutely drained. Together, we simplified down to her most profitable, most enjoyable offer…the one she could deliver best and scale. That one decision gave her a clear message, her marketing became so much easier, and she started attracting the right clients…and making more money.

Clarity matters because you know where you’re going, and others can see it too.

Consistency is about building systems, processes, and habits that make your business stable and sustainable.

Without consistency, you’re constantly winging it. Some weeks you show up on social media, others you disappear. Sometimes onboarding a client feels smooth, other times it’s a mess. That inconsistency confuses your clients and leaves you feeling like you’re constantly behind.

But with consistency, you build momentum and trust.

Another client of mine used to onboard every new client differently…different contracts, payment terms, and timelines every single time. It was exhausting and looked messy from the client side. We created a streamlined onboarding process with templates, automated emails, and clear steps. Suddenly, her clients felt taken care of from day one, and she freed up hours of her own time.

Consistency matters because it creates freedom. It removes decision fatigue and gives you the headspace to focus on growth instead of firefighting.

Alignment is making sure your business actually supports your life, not the other way around.

When you’re out of alignment, your business drains you. You overwork, undercharge, and build offers that keep you chained to your desk. That was exactly my story with my first seven-figure business…it looked successful from the outside, but it was completely out of alignment with the freedom I really wanted.

But when your business is aligned, it feels right. You choose offers, pricing, and boundaries that support your energy and your bigger vision.

One of my clients loved working with groups but kept filling her calendar with back-to-back 1-2-1 calls because she thought that’s what she should do. She was burning out fast. When we restructured her business around group programs, not only did she get her energy back, but she also started earning more while working fewer hours.

Alignment matters because it’s the bridge between your dream business and your dream life. Without it, the money will never feel worth it.

So when you put it all together clarity gives you direction, consistency builds trust and stability, and alignment ensures your business supports your life.

And when those three things are in place, that’s when money flows naturally. That’s when money becomes the byproduct of success, not the definition of it.

So let’s bring this down to something practical you can start reflecting on right away.

I want you to think about these three areas…clarity, consistency, and alignment and ask yourself a few questions. You can even journal on these later

Clarity

·       Do I know exactly who I serve and what I offer them?

·       If someone asked me to explain my business in one sentence, could I do it with confidence?

·       Is my messaging and marketing focused or am I trying to talk to everyone at once?

Consistency

·       Where am I reinventing the wheel in my business every single time?

·       What systems or processes could I create to save myself time and energy?

·       Am I showing up consistently for my audience, my clients, and my business or does it feel a little hit and miss?

Alignment

·       Does my current business model support the lifestyle I want, or is it taking me further away from it?

·       Which offers light me up, and which ones drain me?

·       Where do I need to set better boundaries so I can protect my energy and time?

You don’t need to fix all of this overnight. Just choose one small shift. Maybe it’s simplifying your offers for clarity, setting up one repeatable system for consistency, or adjusting your calendar to create more space for alignment.

Every small step you take in these three areas moves you closer to building a business that truly supports your dream life. And when you do that, the money comes as a natural byproduct.

To wrap up, I want you to remember this: money is not the definition of success..it’s the result of it….it’s the byproduct

When you focus on clarity, consistency, and alignment, you start showing up as the CEO of your business. You stop winging it, you stop chasing money for its own sake, and you start building a business that feels good to run. That’s the point of having a dream business and a dream life.

Thank you so listening…I’ll see you in the next episode, until then, remember the dream is possible when you build the business to support it.